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I love sharing and using EFT to help others feel relief. Now those of you who would prefer to hear about my work in French you can.

I was invited to participate in the EFT Summit in French. Besides my presentation, you’ll hear talks by more then 20 EFTers. Enjoy!!

Learn more here to have access to all the talks.

https://sommet.eftenclasse.com/inscription-sommet-virtuel-eft-dans-l-education-2022/?aff=r7t4xj&cpg=ghv02izu

View here:

https://www.voiceamerica.com/episode/135939/using-the-emotional-freedom-technique-to-improve-wellness

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Contact Deborah for a private, family or group session to receive emotional support yourself or someone you love who has cancer or an illness at DeborahMiller@DeborahMiller.org

Life Coach Nizam interviews Deborah in a delightful way to share about how Deborah looks at how disease, health and love are connected, as well as how important it is to take care of yourself. Also learn a little about how EFT Tapping helps one deal with trauma.

Enjoy this Tapping gift I created for the International EFT Tapping Month on shifting from pain to love. It is the perfect moment to learn how you can release pain and focus on love. It creates many positive changes in your body and mind.

Cuando un mamá esta tranquila, su Bebé entra un estado de paz.

Deborah y Elena hablan de como soltar encontrar paz con la Técnica de Liberación Emocional. Míralo y participa en la demostración para sentir tranquila.

Angela Treat Lyons interviews me about helping children deal with the stress and traumas they experience. Enjoy!

Book is Available NOW on Amazon. Get your copy now!

How to Prevent Challenging Events from Having Traumatic Effects

In Compassion in Action, Emotional First Aid for Kids, you will learn valuable techniques to help children successfully move through upset and trauma. You’ll find self-regulation and recovery techniques to help yourself, so you can help others more effectively. These practical tools support parents, caregivers, teachers and community members who want to protect children. The strategies are easy to learn, apply and remember, for both every day use, and in times of trouble.

In Emotional First-Aid for Children, you discover:

• How to help Children successfully navigate adversity

• Techniques for rapid self-regulation & recovery

• Tools for shifting children from trauma or upset to calm

• Easy to learn, apply and remember techniques

“Emotional First Aid for Children is a simple, practical guide that will show you some of the most cutting-edge techniques parents can apply and teach their children for navigating through troubled times.” ~ David Feinstein, Ph.D. Co-Author, The Promise of Energy Psychology

“Emotional First-Aid for Children is essential for any parent who is concerned about the mental health and well-being of their children.” ~ Gene Monterastelli, Editor TappingQandA.com

“This is the best written, practical, up-to-date, straightforward instruction in Emotional First Aid for children of all ages that I would have liked to write, in the exact same way. Not reading it is immoral.” ~ Ulf Sandström, Hypnotherapist, Trauma Specialist

Deborah D. Miller, PhD: author, has helped hundreds of children suffering from cancer and their care-givers to alleviate the fear, anxiety and stress arising from the illness. She blends energy psychology, science and spirituality in a way that enables her to apply and teach practical techniques that are easy to learn and use. Her materials are available in both English and Spanish. DeborahMiller.org

Jondi Whitis, MToT: author, Master Trainer of Trainers for EFT International, and former Lead Trainer for the Newtown Community Trauma Relief Project, Jondi has helped thousands. Jondi travels widely to train others so they can help people relieve suffering. JondiWhitis.com

You’ve wanted to find out how to help kids get through challenging times.

Here’s how – what are you waiting for?

Book is Available NOW on Amazon. Get your copy now!

In honor of a great man who has left this world, Eric Huurre, I post the video he made. He felt what I was doing was so important that he came to Oaxaca to film me using Tapping with children with cancer in the hospital. I was and am deeply touched by his artistic eye and amazing heart. 

(In English and Espanol)
Jondi Whitis and Deborah D Miller, Ph.D. are completing an emotional first-aid trauma relief book and course to gently help children quickly release the emotional and physical after-effects of the almost daily traumas occurring in the world today.  

The book is meant for anyone, whether parent, teacher, professional or caring adult. It is a practical collection of simple, easy-to-use techniques to calm, balance, regulate and release the effects of challenging and traumatic events. Our primary goal is to help prevent challenging events from becoming traumatic events. We teach useful strategies and interventions to support you and others through challenges, and speed recovery, quickly and gently. 

Our position is that we can all help children avoid common after-effects from troubling Life events, and by doing so, ensure they live healthier, happier lives. 

Troubling times typically cause us to react with a fight/flight/freeze reaction, whether ‘Big’ and ‘Little’ T’ traumatic events, such as: 

● Natural Disasters (earthquake, flood, tornado, fire, freak accidents) 

● Man-made Disasters (car crashes, war, shootings, attacks, immigration/refugee situations, crimes, addictions) 

● Family Disruptions (incarceration, drugs/addictions, abuse, removal from home, loss/separation/divorce) 

● Medical Issues/Situations (diagnosis, illness, treatment, death) 

● Unsettling events at home, work or school that can cause lasting emotional wounds, like bullying, targeting or aggression

All of these commonly create a ‘threat response,’ which is a way of saying that the situation has triggered the body’s natural reactions to perceived or very real threats to our well-being or survival.  In this book we teach simple strategies and intervention techniques that incorporate breathing, grounding, and nervous system regulation. Together with helpful information about our human design under stress, the approaches we offer help anyone develop a basic understanding and plan of action for helping children through times of trouble.

We have divided this Book into three basic, practical parts: 

1. How To Help Yourself 
2. How to Help Children 
3. How to Teach Others to Help Children

Your support will help bring this book and course to the public at large and especially to those who will help children desperately in need of emotional support and self-regulation skills. Many children are lost due to traumatic events and their unresolved after-effects. We’re on a mission to give everyone better ways to deal with emotional trauma, to avoid the creation of life-long emotional issues in ourselves and from passing these traumas on to another generation.

Your donations will help us quickly:

1. Complete the production of the e-book and print version of the book

2. Fund the copy editor

3. Fund the graphic artist designer

4. Speed the book’s availability to those who need it most

5. Allow us to donate books to those in need

6. Offer our donors a copy, and even one for their community*

7. Help us complete and upload the full online course to a viable platform

Book Title:
Emotional First-Aid for Children: How to Quickly Help in Times of Trouble

Practical & Easy-to-Use Trauma Relief Techniques, Strategies & Interventions for In-the-Moment Trauma Relief & Emotional First-Aid.

By Jondi Whitis and Deborah D Miller, Ph.D.

Your support means the world to us, and all the children we will serve, together

* You may request an eBook copy with your donation

En Espanol:
Jondi Whitis y Deborah D Miller, Ph.D. están completando un libro y un curso de alivio de trauma emocional de primeros auxilios para ayudar suavemente a los niños a liberar rápidamente las secuelas emocionales y físicas de los traumas casi diarios que ocurren en el mundo de hoy.

El libro está destinado a cualquier persona, ya sea padre, maestro, profesional o adulto comprensivo. Es una colección práctica de técnicas simples y fáciles de usar para calmar, equilibrar, regular y liberar los efectos de eventos desafiantes y traumáticos. Nuestro objetivo principal es ayudar a evitar que los eventos desafiantes se conviertan en eventos traumáticos. Enseñamos estrategias e intervenciones útiles para apoyarlo a usted y a otros a través de desafíos y acelerar la recuperación, rápida y suavemente.

Nuestra posición es que todos podemos ayudar a los niños a evitar las secuelas comunes de los eventos problemáticos de la Vida y, al hacerlo, garantizar que vivan vidas más saludables y felices.

Los tiempos difíciles generalmente nos hacen reaccionar con una reacción de lucha / huida / congelación, ya sean eventos traumáticos “grandes” y “pequeños”, como:

● Desastres naturales (terremotos, inundaciones, tornados, incendios, accidentes extraños)

● Desastres provocados por el hombre (accidentes automovilísticos, guerra, tiroteos, ataques, situaciones de inmigración / refugiados, crímenes, adicciones)

● Interrupciones familiares (encarcelamiento, drogas / adicciones, abuso, expulsión del hogar, pérdida / separación / divorcio)

● Problemas / situaciones médicas (diagnóstico, enfermedad, tratamiento, muerte)

● Eventos inquietantes en el hogar, el trabajo o la escuela que pueden causar heridas emocionales duraderas, como el acoso escolar, la focalización o la agresión

Todos estos comúnmente crean una “respuesta a la amenaza”, que es una forma de decir que la situación ha desencadenado las reacciones naturales del cuerpo a las amenazas percibidas o muy reales para nuestro bienestar o supervivencia. En este libro enseñamos estrategias simples y técnicas de intervención que incorporan la respiración, la conexión a tierra y la regulación del sistema nervioso. Junto con información útil sobre nuestro diseño humano bajo estrés, los enfoques que ofrecemos ayudan a cualquiera a desarrollar una comprensión básica y un plan de acción para ayudar a los niños en tiempos de dificultades.

Hemos dividido este libro en tres partes básicas y prácticas:

1. Cómo ayudarte a ti mismo

2. Cómo ayudar a los niños

3. Cómo enseñar a otros a ayudar a los niños

Su apoyo ayudará a llevar este libro y curso al público en general y especialmente a aquellos que ayudarán a los niños que necesitan desesperadamente apoyo emocional y habilidades de autorregulación. Muchos niños se pierden debido a eventos traumáticos y sus secuelas no resueltas. Tenemos la misión de brindarles a todos mejores formas de lidiar con el trauma emocional, evitar la creación de problemas emocionales de por vida en nosotros mismos y transmitir estos traumas a otra generación.

Sus donaciones nos ayudarán rápidamente:

1. Complete la producción del libro electrónico y la versión impresa del libro

2. Financiar el editor de copias

3. Financiar al diseñador gráfico

4. Acelere la disponibilidad del libro para quienes más lo necesitan

5. Permítanos donar libros a los necesitados

6. Ofrecer a nuestros donantes una copia, e incluso una para su comunidad *

7. Ayúdanos a completar y subir el curso completo en línea a una plataforma viable

Titulo del libro:

Primeros Auxilios Emocionales para Niños: Cómo Ayudar Rápidamente en Tiempos de Dificultad

Técnicas, Estrategias e Intervenciones de Alivio del Trauma que son Prácticas y Fáciles de Usar para el Alivio del Trauma en el Momento y Primeros Auxilios Emocionales.

Por Jondi Whitis y Deborah D Miller, Ph.D.

Su apoyo significa el mundo para nosotros, y todos los niños a los que serviremos, juntos

* Puede solicitar una copia del libro electrónico con su donación

Escuche la experiencia de la enfermera Lupita Robles y Dra Deborah D. Miller, la experta de EFT Tapping, hablar de los beneficios de Tapping para las enfermeras en este entrevista de Clara Stella Arenas Julio24 2019

Inicia a escuchar la entrevista a las 2:00 minutes. Antes fueran problemas del Internet para Clara a conectar.